🌸 Why Did I Get Sucked In?

Decoding the Magnetic Allure of Narcissists
(Chapter 4 Deep Dive)

Welcome back, incredible women, to Empowering Women in Conversations!

This week we’re diving into Chapter 4 of Dr. Ramani Durvasula’s book Should I Stay or Should I Go? — “How Did You Get Sucked In?”

If you’ve ever asked yourself:

• “How did I get here?”

• “Why did I choose so badly?”

This chapter is for you. And here’s the most important part: It’s not your fault. Narcissists are incredibly skilled at pulling people in. Let’s unpack how that happens—step by step.

✨ The Irresistible Charms

Narcissists often look dazzling at first. Dr. Durvasula calls these seductive traits:

• The 3 Cs: Charisma, Charm, Confidence
  They learn early that appearances matter more than authenticity. These traits can mask insecurity and fragility.

• Brains & Accomplishments
  Smart, successful, and driven—qualities that seem promising for the future.

• Looks & Presentation
  Attractive, stylish

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