If You Love Them, Why Does It Hurt This Much?
Why your body keeps reaching for someone your mind knows isn’t safe —
and how to finally understand what’s happening without forcing a decision.
A 30-minute trauma-informed workshop for women who know a relationship hurts — but can’t just “walk away.”
Call To ActionYou might be here because…
You know this relationship isn’t healthy — yet you still miss them
Your mind understands, but your body keeps craving connection
You feel ashamed for not being able to “just let go”
You feel guilty for wanting more, space, or peace
You keep explaining their behavior… even when it hurts you
You’re exhausted from carrying the emotional weight of the relationship
And the hardest part?
It’s not just the relationship — it’s the shame you feel for still being attached.
Let me say this clearly:
You are not broken. You are not weak. And you are not crazy.
What you’re experiencing makes sense — from a nervous system perspective.
This workshop is for you if:
You love someone who hurts you — emotionally, psychologically, or relationally
You feel pulled back by longing, guilt, hope, or fear of abandonment
You want understanding and relief — not pressure or ultimatums
You want to reconnect with your body and self-trust
This workshop is NOT:
❌ A “leave your relationship” program
❌ A shame-based wake-up call
❌ A push to make decisions you’re not ready for
This is a clarity intervention — not a command.
When love hurts this much, it’s not because you’re doing something wrong.
It’s because your body learned to attach in a way that once kept you safe —
even if it’s hurting you now.
Your mind understands patterns.
Your body responds to chemicals, attachment, and familiarity.
When love has been inconsistent — mixed with fear, hope, closeness, distance, apologies, and pain — the nervous system forms a trauma bond.
That bond can feel like:
Craving
Withdrawal
Panic when you pull away
Guilt when you choose yourself
This workshop helps you separate love from trauma, and clarity from shame.
In this 30-minute Healing Empowerment Session, you’ll learn:
✔ Why your body craves someone your mind knows isn’t safe
✔ How dopamine, oxytocin, and cortisol keep you stuck in longing
✔ The difference between love and trauma-bonded attachment
✔ Why hope keeps you attached — and why that doesn’t make you naïve
✔ How emotional parentification shapes adult relationships
✔ Why guilt shows up when you think about protecting yourself
✔ What healthy love actually feels like in the body
✔ How to stop abandoning yourself — even if you still love them
When you join, you receive immediate access to:
🎥 30-Minute Video Workshop
Trauma-informed education + gentle guidance you can return to anytime
📘 Guided Reflection Workbook (PDF)
Prompts that help you listen to your body without forcing action
🧠 Somatic + Cognitive Exercises
Simple practices to calm guilt, anxiety, and craving
✍️ Insight-Building Prompts
Questions that bring relief and clarity — not pressure
♾️ Lifetime Access
Go at your own pace, revisit whenever you need grounding
You don’t have to decide anything today.
You don’t have to leave.
You don’t have to explain yourself.
You just have to listen to yourself — safely.
Get Instant Access for $29.99Frequently Asked Questions:
Do I have to leave my relationship?
No. This workshop does not tell you what to do. It helps you understand what’s happening.
Is this therapy?
No. This is an educational workshop. Therapy is available separately for Texas residents.
How long is the workshop?
Approximately 30 minutes.
Is this live?
No. This is pre-recorded with immediate access.
Who is this for?
Women who feel emotionally stuck, attached, or conflicted in a relationship that hurts.
If this session resonates, you may explore:
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Counseling (Texas residents only)
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Coaching (available worldwide)
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EmpowerHer Community — support without pressure
Only if and when you’re ready.